Every minute, some new romance lights up a spot the globe. ‘Even if I met someone, he wouldn’t like me when he really got to know me.’ Fall in love with yourself and your own life and develop gratitude for what you have. She said, “Maybe I can do better.” Julie had a case of thinking. ” The other says, “There’s not enough love to go around.” Both extremes cause you think of love in terms of numbers. Love happens at the right time, between the right people. Notice the tree outside your window, the neighbor who feeds your cat when you’re out of town, the variety of leftovers in your fridge. Watch if you tend to catastrophize or criticise yourself a lot eg. Change Your belief system We manifest our beliefs and attract that which we fear to us so that we can have the experience, and no longer be afraid. We cannot expect someone to come knocking on our doors. A sense of personal worth, security and genuinely being happy for other’s good fortune, opens up joy and creativity for yourself.When we believe that there are not enough quality men out there to date; then we don’t attract quality men. Good people are attracted to people who are living their lives to the fullest. Many men have told me that what attracted them to their partner was a great smile, laugh and that they were having a good time.Make a list of things in your life that you are grateful for 3.Evaluate how things you thought were negative actually turned out to be positive 4. Journal about where your sense of scarcity comes from 6.We can become cynical and hopeless if we don’t strive to hold onto optimism and joy every day.
Remember when you met a lover or partner for the first time. Allow yourself to recall every detail of that first encounter. Nobody, no matter how charming, can replace your significant person because nobody else can be that person. They don’t look right, sound right, or smell right. Don’t focus on the fact you are single and not worthwhile if you don’t have a partner.When we fear, not getting a good man, then we won’t get a good man. If your work, friends and interests are not fulfilling you, look at what you would really like to happen in your life. You may need to seek out a new crowd and a new social environment.The truth is that there are just as many good men out there as there are good women. Thus we open the door to meeting good men as we eliminate the vibration that surrounds us that says that men are no good. Think about changing the way you spend your free time. Don’t let difficult experiences with some men scar you for life. Your person waits out there – for the exact right time. In the meantime, you meet all kinds of people who are not that one person. It’s the fastest way to make yourself feel miserable.
It brings the right challenges, so you can learn – all in just the right timing and sequence. Also check whether you are only attracted to ‘unavailable men.’ Stop comparing yourself to others.
If you feel desperate and needy or are attracted to ‘players’ or think that nice men are ‘beige’ and boring, you may miss out on some great guys that are available.