and so far great i feel an experriance in life but to complicate things i am also seeing a younger girl my age 19 .
I have fallin more for the older lady what should i do.
In addition, there can be some issues as well, if the male is many years older than the female.
It is possible to have a secure and loving relationship in which there is an age difference, if both people involved understand certain issues that may arise and they can work together to resolve them.
We all begin our quest for love as young adults and we live with the intention of holding strong into our senior years.
If two people are lucky enough people find each other, it usually will not matter at which point in life they do so. I have read most of thes comments and have found not many have been the other way round i am 20 goin on 21 man and have started seeing a 31yr young women.
Another aspect to consider is if the age difference will interfere with your own personal goals.
Think about whether the age difference will affect activities done together; whether they be hiking, skiing or watching movies, these times spent together will keep the relationship strong.
You may find it very useful to choose a time to sit down and seriously talk about how the age difference may affect your lives one year, five years and possibly twenty years down the road.