All they are looking for during this secret pursuit is just to look for the passion, care and love that they are deprived of. Not only you will end up hurting yourself, (emotionally and physically), but also you will end up hurting the husband and your beloved lover. But if you are truly madly with her and the fact that having an affair with her still entices you, then find ways to please her while the relationship lasts. The fact is that managing a relationship with a married woman can be pretty tough. This would include giving her the pleasure that she has been longing for and the attention she needs. Give her a good time - A married woman starts an affair to have hot sex. You are engaged in what is commonly thought of as a ‘triangle.’ Triangles are rough on the heart.Fundamentally, they are unstable, like three legs on a table.You can fall in love with a guy who wrote that he likes Madonna, but you can't fall in love with a guy who isn't kind."5. Gottlieb: "In cities where you find a lot of really ambitious, Type A, driven people, like in NYC and L. A., with the entertainment business and Wall Street…you get a lot of maximizers' [people who keep looking over their shoulder for something better]. They will be just as picky in a bad and unhealthy way. If you don't want to be alone—maybe Samantha does—that's a dangerous message."7. Gottlieb: "We say, I'm a writer, but he doesn't read! I'm creative.' But people can be creative in different ways, and the fact that he doesn't read the same books that you do, well, maybe he wants someone who he can talk about the baseball game with but you're not that person. You're not going to share every single interest, and that's okay.
In the past, a married woman is so stay at home to do household chores.
Two people get married and have marital problems, instead of resolving those problems either by fixing the relationship or ending it, which by the way can be a valid resolution of a problem, a third party is brought into the relationship, and now you have a triangle.