Just as he’s misunderstanding you, you may be misunderstanding him.
So let’s talk about 3 strategies you can use on a date (or in a relationship) with a “selfish man” so that you actually have a lot of fun and enjoy yourself. Can you help give me a clue on how to be more successful with the ladies? Hi Lauren, I’m friends with this guy and we really get along. He used to text me all the time and now he never texts me unless I text him first. She expressed interest in sex but we never went through with it.I wondered if these feminine-sounding PUAs actually liked the women or they were just playing a fun game like dress-up or doll-house.A few posts back I submitted a link to a study that showed how women talk can reveal how self-centered they are (I can’t find or remember link right now) by using “I” so much. Upon asking them what the weather will be like tomorrow, they could say, “It will be cold,” or they could say, “I don’t know; I think I heard on the television it would be cold.” The girl that answers the first way isn’t self-centered. So, I can neg the group with this concept in a masculine way, but when I highlight the examples of how women answer questions to reveal their self-centeredness, I can go all gaylike on them and mimic their feminine responses. People like to talk about themselves; it’s fun and it makes us feel happier.(Example: “Who brought their attention-seeking little sister along?
”) Unusually self-centered girls are narcissists par excellence, and they love “screening” men for their friends and playing matchmaker, when they aren’t actively stealing those men away from their friends.
Find out which girl in the group is the most self-centered by listening for overwrought first-person singular pronoun usage, but also by watching for which girl is constantly interrupting someone else’s conversation to interject her opinion or exclamation, or which girl is moving her body forward into the group’s center of mass to draw attention to herself.